Here’s the one question I ask my kids EVERY day!
This question creates EXPECTANCY! Our expectations determine our experience. When my daughter verbally communicates that she is looking forward to PE today, she is creating an expectation that something good will happen. This expectation is like a self fulfilling prophesy. Good or bad.
"What are you going to do about this?"
Our 13 year old boy responded to false accusations of a bully by saying “ I HAVE NOTHING TO PROVE TO YOU, I KNOW WHO I AM!”
Goodbye Victim Thinking
“Once you have forgiven someone, you cannot bring up a past situation to justify a present offense. Forgiveness restores the standard.” -Kris Vallotton